How to Perform a Marriage in Kansas City

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Have you been asked to officiate a wedding in Kansas City? Performing a wedding is an exciting job, but it’s also a tremendous responsibility. This comprehensive guide will explain the process in detail to ensure you know everything there is to know. We’ll dive into important questions like what you’ll need to officiate, how to contact the office that handles marriage licenses, and how to properly register the wedding you perform in accordance with the rules in Kansas City.

1. How to Become a Minister in Kansas City

The first step you’ll need to take is to become an ordained ULC minister (assuming you haven’t completed this part already). Get Ordained™ provides ordination through the Universal Life Church free of charge and welcomes all who feel called to ministry. It’s also easy to join; the process can be done entirely online and takes only a few minutes from start to finish. Once ordained, you’ll have the authority to perform legal marriage ceremonies! To begin, just click the button below.

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Important Info for Ministers in Kansas City

ULC Ordination Accepted:: Yes
Minister Registration Required:: Sometimes
Documents Required:: N/A
Minister's Residency:: Irrelevant
Minister's Minimum Age:: 18

2. Learn Kansas City Marriage Requirements

Your next step will be to reach out to the office that processes marriage licenses in Kansas City. Let them know that you’re an ordained minister and that you’re curious about what documents or credentials they need to see from you, as the wedding officiant, before performing a ceremony in their jurisdiction. You’ll find contact information for the Kansas City office listed below.

Office Address:: 415 E. 12th Street, Room 104
Kansas City, MO 64106
Office Phone Number:: (816) 881-1576
Office Website:: Kansas City Office Website

3. Who Can Officiate a Wedding in Kansas City?

One great candidate: You! (At least, as soon as you are ordained). We all know that weddings are notoriously spendy, but one way that couples are reducing their costs – and bringing deeper meaning to the event – is by choosing an officiant they know personally.

For loved ones who are asked to officiate, this is an incredible honor; serving in the role of officiant signifies a deep level of faith and trust between you and the couple. But not all couples are aware this is an option! If someone you love has an upcoming wedding, you might offer to preside over the ceremony as an ordained minister in case they hadn't considered it. In the end, the decision will of course be theirs.

Average Cost of a Wedding in Kansas City:: $21,000

4. What You'll Need to Officiate in Kansas City

After speaking with the office in Kansas City, you should have a clearer idea of what you might need to order from our online catalog. Many of our ministers in Kansas City decide to get an Classic Wedding Kit, though your choice may vary based on the specific requirements in place.

With all that prep work out of the way, you’ll be set to officiate the wedding! Woohoo! If this is your first time performing a wedding (or you just want to brush up on your knowledge) head over to our wedding training center, where you’ll find all sorts of useful tools and resources.

5. How Kansas City Marriage Licenses Work

After the ceremony is over, your last (and vital) responsibility will be to sign and return the marriage license. In Kansas City, a marriage license is valid for 30 days. Once it has been picked up, there is no mandatory waiting period before the wedding ceremony may be performed. Please keep in mind that the license must be returned within the prescribed period after signing.

This is a legal document, so please double-check that it is correctly filled out before returning it to the office that issued it. For detailed instructions on how to fill out a marriage license, visit our marriage license training page.

Marriage License Waiting Period:: None
Marriage License Valid For:: 30 Days
Return Within:: 15 Days

6. Performing a Wedding in Kansas City

Kansas City is Missouri's largest city and home to some of the state's best jazz, theater, and food. For the ultimate Kansas City wedding, we recommend hosting a wedding at the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts, booking a Kansas City jazz band, and catering the event with some Kansas City barbeque. If folks can manage that and still feel like they need more of the Kansas City experience, try catching a Chiefs game!

7. What You Should Do Now for a Wedding in Kansas City

Kansas City summers are hot and humid while winters are bitterly cold, making May and September the best wedding months.

Now that you know everything there is to know about Kansas City weddings, don’t forget to take that all-important first step in this process by officially becoming ordained with the ULC! Click the button below to get the ball rolling.