How to Perform a Marriage in Oakland County

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Have you been asked to officiate a wedding in Oakland County? Performing a wedding is an exciting job, but it’s also a tremendous responsibility. This comprehensive guide will explain the process in detail to ensure you know everything there is to know. We’ll dive into important questions like what you’ll need to officiate, how to contact the office that handles marriage licenses, and how to properly register the wedding you perform in accordance with the rules in Oakland County.

1. How to Become a Minister in Oakland County

The first step you’ll need to take is to become an ordained ULC minister (assuming you haven’t completed this part already). Get Ordained™ provides ordination through the Universal Life Church free of charge and welcomes all who feel called to ministry. It’s also easy to join; the process can be done entirely online and takes only a few minutes from start to finish. Once ordained, you’ll have the authority to perform legal marriage ceremonies! To begin, just click the button below.

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Important Info for Ministers in Oakland County

ULC Ordination Accepted:: Yes
Minister Registration Required:: No
Documents Required:: N/A
Minister's Residency:: Irrelevant
Minister's Minimum Age:: 18

2. Learn Oakland County Marriage Requirements

Your next step will be to reach out to the office that processes marriage licenses in Oakland County. Let them know that you’re an ordained minister and that you’re curious about what documents or credentials they need to see from you, as the wedding officiant, before performing a ceremony in their jurisdiction. You’ll find contact information for the Oakland County office listed below.

Office Address:: 1200 N. Telegraph Dept 413
Pontiac, MI 48341
Office Phone Number:: (248) 858-0571
Office Website:: Oakland County Office Website

3. Who Can Officiate a Wedding in Oakland County?

One great candidate: You! (At least, as soon as you are ordained). We all know that weddings are notoriously spendy, but one way that couples are reducing their costs – and bringing deeper meaning to the event – is by choosing an officiant they know personally.

For loved ones who are asked to officiate, this is an incredible honor; serving in the role of officiant signifies a deep level of faith and trust between you and the couple. But not all couples are aware this is an option! If someone you love has an upcoming wedding, you might offer to preside over the ceremony as an ordained minister in case they hadn't considered it. In the end, the decision will of course be theirs.

Average Cost of a Wedding in Oakland County:: $29,000

4. What You'll Need to Officiate in Oakland County

After speaking with the office in Oakland County, you should have a clearer idea of what you might need to order from our online catalog. Many of our ministers in Oakland County decide to get an Ordination Kit, though your choice may vary based on the specific requirements in place.

With all that prep work out of the way, you’ll be set to officiate the wedding! Woohoo! If this is your first time performing a wedding (or you just want to brush up on your knowledge) head over to our wedding training center, where you’ll find all sorts of useful tools and resources.

5. How Oakland County Marriage Licenses Work

After the ceremony is over, your last (and vital) responsibility will be to sign and return the marriage license. In Oakland County, a marriage license has validity that varies by county. Once it has been picked up, there is a mandatory 3-day waiting period before the wedding ceremony may be performed. Please keep in mind that the license must be returned within the prescribed period after signing.

This is a legal document, so please double-check that it is correctly filled out before returning it to the office that issued it. For detailed instructions on how to fill out a marriage license, visit our marriage license training page.

Marriage License Waiting Period:: 3 Days
Marriage License Valid For:: Varies by county
Return Within:: 10 Days

6. Performing a Wedding in Oakland County

Oakland County may be a big square, but you certainly don't have to be a square to enjoy the abundance of beauty found within it. Home to the notable cities of Pontiac and Troy, Oakland County has a healthy mix of natural beauty and urban art and history. Enjoy the scenic views at Bald Mountain or Pontiac Lake, or explore the urban historic and arts districts of Troy and Pontiac. Whatever your interest, Oakland County is sure to be a great host for a wedding.

7. What You Should Do Now for a Wedding in Oakland County

Being mostly inland from the Great Lakes, Oakland County has cold winters as is traditional for the region, but warm summers that are less humid than you might find lakeside.

Now that you know everything there is to know about Oakland County weddings, don’t forget to take that all-important first step in this process by officially becoming ordained with the ULC! Click the button below to get the ball rolling.