Elle

I chose to become ordained to provide a more holistic and seamless experience for the events I curate. Often, I found that there was a gap between the aesthetic design of an event and the spiritual or emotional weight of the ceremony itself. By being ordained, I can bridge that gap. This ensures that the words spoken are as intentional and well-crafted as the environment they are spoken in.

I am originally from Texas, and I am currently based in Southern California. My background includes significant time spent exploring the cultures and traditions of places like Paris and Marrakesh, which informs my global and inclusive perspective on celebrations.

My goal is to redefine what it means to lead a ceremony in a modern, secular world. I hope to help couples and families create moments that feel elevated chic yet deeply grounded in behavioral science and emotional resonance. I want to move away from off the shelf traditions and toward bespoke rituals that actually mean something to the people involved.

As a secular humanist and agnostic theist, my focus is on the beauty of the human spirit and the power of community. I am comfortable navigating the space between the sacred and the secular, making me a great fit for couples who want a ceremony that respects tradition without being bound by it. I believe the most important religion in a ceremony is the love and shared values of the people standing before me.

What sets my ceremonies apart is my background in cognitive and behavioral science. I do not just read a script: I look at how the ceremony flows and how it impacts the psyche of the couple and their guests. I specialize in smart business casual and elevated chic atmospheres, ensuring the tone is sophisticated but the heart is accessible. Every word is chosen to reflect the couple’s specific era and their future goals, creating a memory that feels both timeless and incredibly current.

I am primarily available throughout Southern California, with a focus on the Inland Empire, Orange County, and Los Angeles counties. Having recently transitioned my professional and community roots back to this region, I have a deep appreciation for the unique venues and coastal vibes of the area. I am also open to travel for destination ceremonies, drawing on my extensive experience with international logistics and global travel.

Beyond weddings, I am passionate about creating modern rites of passage, goal-setting ceremonies, and commemorative events. My experience managing complex logistics and silent auctions for major organizations means I bring a high level of professionalism and calm to what can often be a high-pressure day.