Rockshana Desances

I became an ordained minister online because I’ve always been passionate about guiding people through transformative moments in their lives. As a life and leadership coach, I help individuals unlock their full potential, and as a dance coach, I work with couples to create meaningful memories on their wedding day. Becoming an officiant felt like a natural extension of my work—supporting people during some of their most significant moments. Getting ordained online allowed me to bring a personal touch to ceremonies, ensuring each one reflects the unique story and values of the couple. It has also enabled me to play a bigger role in celebrating love, commitment, growth, and family.

I hope to use my online ordination to help families create deeply personal and meaningful ceremonies that reflect their unique love stories and values. By blending my experience as a life coach and choreographer, I aim to guide individuals through both the emotional and celebratory aspects of their special day, ensuring every ceremony and first dance is unforgettable. My ultimate goal is to provide a full-service experience—from officiating a heartfelt ceremony to helping couples feel confident and connected during their first dance. I strive to make their day stress-free, joyous, and uniquely theirs.

I focus on creating a deeply personalized experience for each couple. By tapping into what makes each relationship unique, I help couples articulate their love story in a way that feels authentic to them. I take the time to get to know the couple, crafting a ceremony that reflects their journey, values, and personality. Whether it’s incorporating special rituals, writing custom vows, or setting the perfect tone for their day, I ensure the ceremony is not only beautiful but also meaningful and memorable. I aim to ensure the couple feels truly seen, understood, and celebrated.

I enjoy traveling for anyone’s special event, and I’m open to traveling to various locations to help make each celebration unique. While I'm based in Fairfield, CT, I have experience working with couples in diverse settings—from intimate backyard weddings to grand venues. My goal is to provide a personal and meaningful touch, no matter the location, and I'm always excited to explore new areas to make each couple’s day truly special.