Holly Benware
Ordained Minister in Watertown, New York
Why did you originally become an ordained minister online?
I originally became an ordained minister online because I wanted to provide meaningful, inclusive, and personalized ceremonies for people during one of the most important moments of their lives. I believe that everyone deserves a ceremony that reflects their values, beliefs, and love, regardless of their religious background, traditions, or personal circumstances. The accessibility of online ordination allowed me to answer this call without the barriers of traditional seminary education, while still equipping me with the legal authority and spiritual foundation to officiate weddings. It also gave me the flexibility to serve a diverse range of people, ensuring that all love stories are honored with dignity and respect. For me, this journey is not just about officiating ceremonies it's about creating heartfelt connections, offering support, and making life’s most significant moments truly special for those I serve.
Where are you from?
I am from Carthage NY
What do you hope to achieve with your online ordination?
My goal as an ordained minister is to create deeply personal, meaningful, and memorable wedding ceremonies that truly reflect the love and commitment of each couple I serve. I believe that a wedding ceremony should be more than just a formality, it should be a heartfelt expression of a couple’s journey, values, and future together. With my online ordination, I aim to: Provide Personalized and Unique Ceremonies – Every love story is different, and I want to craft ceremonies that honor the individuality and connection of each couple. Be Inclusive and Welcoming – Love knows no boundaries, and I am dedicated to officiating weddings for couples of all backgrounds, faiths, and identities, including interfaith, non-religious, and LGBTQ+ unions. Offer a Stress-Free and Supportive Experience – Planning a wedding can be overwhelming, so I strive to make the ceremony process seamless, guiding couples with warmth and professionalism. Create Lasting Memories – A wedding is one of the most significant moments in a couple’s life, and I want to ensure that the words spoken and the emotions shared leave a lasting, cherished impression. At the heart of my work is a genuine passion for celebrating love in all its forms. Whether a couple desires a traditional, spiritual, modern, or unconventional ceremony, I am honored to help bring their vision to life.
Religious Affiliations
None
What do you think makes your ceremonies special as a Watertown, NY wedding officiant?
My wedding ceremonies are more than just a formality, they are heartfelt, meaningful, and uniquely crafted to celebrate each couple’s love story. I take pride in making every ceremony a beautiful, personal experience that reflects the values, personalities, and journey of the couple. Here’s what sets my ceremonies apart: Personalized & Thoughtful Touches – No two couples are the same, and neither are my ceremonies. I take the time to understand each couple’s love story, beliefs, and vision to create a ceremony that feels authentic and special. Inclusive & Open-Minded Approach – I welcome and celebrate all love, whether traditional, interfaith, secular, spiritual, LGBTQ+, or non-traditional unions. My goal is to make every couple feel seen, valued, and respected. Engaging & Meaningful Delivery – A great ceremony isn’t just about words—it’s about creating a moment that moves and inspires. I ensure that my tone, energy, and storytelling make the ceremony both intimate and unforgettable. Stress-Free & Supportive Experience – Wedding planning can be overwhelming, and I strive to make the ceremony process smooth and stress-free. From helping with vows to guiding couples through the legal aspects, I’m here to support every step of the way. Memories That Last a Lifetime – A wedding ceremony is the heart of the big day, and my goal is to leave couples and guests with a lasting, cherished memory filled with love, laughter, and joy. Whether you’re looking for a lighthearted and fun ceremony, a deeply spiritual moment, or a simple and elegant exchange of vows, I am honored to bring your vision to life.
Are there particular areas near you where you prefer to travel or have special experience?
I will consider traveling under special circumstances.
Types of Service Offered
Marriages, Same-Sex Marriages, Renewal of Vows, Handfastings