Officiant And Trauma Practitioner

I offer officiant services, as well as marital and premarital coaching.

New York

Have you ever felt lost, confused, unlovable, out-of-touch, angry, or on the verge of losing it all or yourself? Changing all this is as simple as picking up your phone.

It is said that the definition of insanity is doing something repeatedly the same way but expecting a different outcome. Is there an area in life you are unhappy with? Are there things in your life that you know you want and need to change but not sure where to start? Are you struggling in your relationship(s), your marriage, or single life?

Lord knows I’ve been there. All my life I saw all my friends thrive while I struggled every day just to survive. I was the product of divorce, raised in poverty (on some pretty rough streets) and thrown into special-ed for a minor speech impediment. At fourteen I moved out on my own and after years of therapy, tapping into my faith, self-examination, endless podcasts, books, hard work and determination found the true me and gained a whole new perspective on life.

Mr. Jay is a certified Betrayal Trauma Practitioner. Betrayal Trauma is trauma suffered when a person (on whom you thought you could rely and deeply trust) breaks or violates that trust. This could be a parent/spouse/boss/sibling/neighbor/friend, etc., and could be emotional, financial, physical, spiritual, or personal. Betrayal trauma is unlike other betrayals due to the fact that it is very personalized/intentional in nature.