Caitlin Stubbs

I became an ordained minister online so I could officiate a wedding for someone close to me in a way that felt personal and meaningful. I wanted to be able to support them directly during an important life moment without relying on a traditional officiant, and online ordination made that possible quickly and legally.

Sacramento, CA

I hope to use my online ordination to officiate meaningful ceremonies for friends and loved ones, especially weddings, in a way that feels personal, respectful, and tailored to the couple. I also want to be available to support others if they need someone they trust to help lead a ceremony that reflects their values and relationship.

What makes my ceremonies special is that they’re highly personal and centered on the couple’s story, not a generic script. I take time to understand their relationship, values, and tone they want—whether that’s heartfelt, lighthearted, spiritual, or simple—and build the ceremony around that.

I focus on making people feel comfortable and present in the moment, while creating language that feels natural and authentic rather than overly formal. The goal is always to make the ceremony feel like them, not just something they’re going through.

I approach ceremonies with flexibility, respect, and attention to detail, making sure each one reflects the couple’s preferences and any legal requirements. I’m happy to work with couples on writing vows, structuring the ceremony, or simply officiating a script they already love.

My goal is to make the process easy, supportive, and stress-free, while ensuring the ceremony feels meaningful and memorable for everyone involved.