Cathleen Antoine-Abiala

I became ordained as a way to support people during meaningful life moments in a simple and accessible way. My work has always centered on holding space, building connection, and helping people move through important transitions with care and intention. This felt like a natural extension of that work.

I’m based in New York City, and my background is in education and community-based work. I’ve spent years helping people build trust, communicate across differences, and create spaces rooted in care and respect.

I hope to offer ceremonies that feel genuine, inclusive, and grounded—whether simple and intimate or more personalized. For me, it’s about helping people feel present and connected to the meaning of the moment.

My approach is non-denominational and inclusive. I respect a wide range of spiritual and cultural traditions and work with couples to create ceremonies that feel authentic to them.

What makes my ceremonies special is the way I hold space for the moment. I bring a calm, grounded presence and a genuine respect for each couple’s story and values. My goal is to create a ceremony that feels natural, meaningful, and reflective of who they are—whether that’s something simple and intimate or more personalized.

Based in Brooklyn and available throughout New York City for small, intimate ceremonies.

I offer simple, meaningful ceremonies with a focus on flexibility, professionalism, and respect for each couple’s unique values and preferences.