James Tomlinson

I originally became ordained to officiate a wedding for a close family member. What began as a practical step became something more meaningful. I realized the importance of creating ceremonies that are personal, thoughtful, and reflective of the people involved.

I was born in Michigan and grew up in the northwest suburbs of Chicago. I moved to the city as a teenager and have spent much of my life here, currently living in the Andersonville neighborhood. Along the way, I’ve also lived on the East Coast as well as abroad.

I hope to be a steady, trusted presence during one of the most personal and meaningful moments in people’s lives.

My background is rooted in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA). I was baptized and confirmed at St. Stephen’s Lutheran Church in Carpentersville, Illinois; and later attended Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Chicago.

Over time, my beliefs have evolved toward a more inclusive and pluralistic perspective, grounded in individual freedom of belief, thoughtful reflection, and a personal search for truth.

I strive to create ceremonies centered on kindness, love, inclusion, justice, and respect for human dignity. I welcome people of all backgrounds, identities, and beliefs, and am especially committed to ensuring that everyone (especially the LGBTQIA+ community and those who do not feel at home in traditional religious settings) feels fully welcomed and affirmed.

What makes my ceremonies special is that they are built around the people at the center.

I take time to understand who they are, their story, and what this moment means to them. That allows me to create something that feels authentic, personal, and true to their values.

I’m also intentional about creating space for everyone regardless of background, beliefs, or identity so they feel fully seen, respected, and comfortable.

I am open to travel and flexible depending on the needs of those I’m working with and the location of the ceremony. I’ve officiated ceremonies in and around Chicago as well as downstate Illinois, including at Levere Memorial Temple in Evanston, private venues, and lake homes.

My approach is highly personal and collaborative. I work closely with everyone to create a ceremony that reflects their story, their values, and the tone they want whether that’s spiritual, secular, traditional, or something entirely unique.

I aim to strike the right balance between meaning and authenticity so the ceremony feels natural, memorable, and truly representative of who they are.