Tosh Paynes

I became ordained online because I’ve always felt a calling to uplift, guide, and support others spiritually. Life has taught me that people often just need someone who cares enough to show up, speak truth, and remind them of God’s love. Becoming ordained allowed me to formally step into that role of service.

The Westbank of New Orleans.

I hope to deepen my ability to serve people spiritually and be present during some of life’s most meaningful moments. Whether it’s officiating weddings, offering guidance, or simply being a voice of faith and encouragement, my goal is to help people feel supported, valued, and connected to God.

My faith foundation is rooted in Christianity, with a Baptist background that shaped my early understanding of Scripture, prayer, and the importance of a personal relationship with God. Over time, my spiritual journey has also led me to embrace aspects of spiritualism in the sense of being mindful of spiritual growth, discernment, and the presence of God in everyday life. While my beliefs are grounded in Christ-centered teachings, I approach ministry with openness, compassion, and a desire to meet people where they are in their spiritual walk. My goal is always to reflect love, faith, and guidance while honoring the diverse paths people may take in their relationship with God.

What makes my ceremonies special is the intention and care I put into making each one personal and meaningful for the couple. I take the time to understand their story, their values, and what love means to them so the ceremony reflects who they truly are. My approach blends faith, warmth, and authenticity, creating an atmosphere where the couple and their loved ones can feel the significance of the moment. Whether the ceremony is faith-centered or simply focused on love and commitment, my goal is to make it heartfelt, memorable, and a beautiful beginning to their next chapter together.

I’m open to all locations.

As a minister, my goal is to serve others with compassion, respect, and authenticity. My ministry is rooted in love, grace, and faith, and I strive to reflect God’s heart in the way I support people. I provide services such as officiating weddings, offering spiritual encouragement, and walking alongside individuals and families during meaningful moments as well as difficult seasons of life. I believe ministry is about meeting people where they are, creating safe spaces for healing and connection, and reminding people of God’s presence, love, and guidance in every stage of their journey.