Darren Main

It actually began very personally! Two of my dearest friends asked me to officiate their wedding. They wanted a ceremony that felt like one of my yoga classes—mindful, heartfelt, and spiritual, but without the structure of traditional religion.

Getting ordained online was the most direct and authentic way to honor their request. It allowed me to legally and lovingly guide them through that beautiful milestone. I quickly discovered how many other couples were searching for that same kind of personal, meaningful ceremony, and it blossomed into one of the most joyful parts of my work.

Berkeley, CA

As an ordained minister with a deep-rooted background in yoga, meditation, and writing, I specialize in creating beautiful, personalized ceremonies that honor your unique journey. Whether you are celebrating a wedding, honoring the life of a loved one at a funeral, or marking another significant life transition, my focus is on crafting an experience that is spiritual and heartfelt, without being tied to any specific religious doctrine. I work closely with you to weave together your stories, values, and intentions into a ceremony that is authentic, meaningful, and memorable for everyone present.

I believe spirituality is deeply personal. I believe in holding space rather than injecting my own beliefs.

For me, it all comes down to one thing: presence.

In a world that is always rushing, my greatest joy is to create a moment that feels like it’s standing still. With my background in yoga and meditation, I don't just perform a ceremony; I hold space for it. Before we even begin, we take a collective, calming breath. We ground ourselves. We create this beautiful, vibrant bubble of energy that is purely focused on the two of you and the incredible commitment you're making. It’s about feeling every single word, every glance, every heartbeat of that moment.

And as an author, I am absolutely passionate about storytelling! No two couples are alike, so why should their ceremonies be? I love diving deep with my couples, hearing about the funny first date, the moment you knew they were "the one," and the little quirks that make your love story uniquely yours. I then get to weave all of that magic into a narrative that is deeply personal, heartfelt, and authentic. We're not just checking boxes; we're crafting an experience that will give you and your guests goosebumps!

So, what makes my ceremonies special? It’s that blend of joyful presence and heartfelt storytelling. It’s creating a spiritual (but not religious) space that feels sacred, personal, and absolutely bursting with love and happiness! It’s pure magic, and I feel so incredibly lucky to be a part of it!