Traci R. Dillingham

I became a legally ordained minister to create inclusive, heartfelt ceremonies that honor love, transformation, and spiritual connection. With over 17 years of leadership experience, I’ve spent my career helping people navigate life’s transitions with empathy, clarity, and purpose. Becoming ordained online was a natural extension of that calling—allowing me to serve not only in the workplace, but in the sacred moments that define our personal lives. Whether I’m officiating a wedding, blessing a home, or offering spiritual guidance, my goal is to meet people where they are and celebrate who they are. I specialize in crafting ceremonies that reflect each individual’s story, values, and beliefs—especially for those seeking affirming spaces, including same-sex couples and families from diverse spiritual backgrounds. Rooted in compassion and professionalism, my ministry is about more than rituals—it’s about connection, healing, and joy. I’m honored to walk alongside others as they mark life’s milestones with intention and grace.

Union County, NJ

Through my online ordination, I aim to create inclusive, affirming spaces where people can celebrate life’s most meaningful transitions—whether through marriage, spiritual healing, or personal milestones. My goal is to serve with empathy, professionalism, and intention, offering ceremonies that reflect each individual’s values, beliefs, and story. I hope to be a source of comfort and connection for those seeking guidance, especially in moments that call for reflection, celebration, or healing. Whether officiating same-sex weddings, performing house blessings, or offering Reiki healing, I strive to honor the diversity of human experience and foster a sense of belonging. Ultimately, I see ministry as an extension of my lifelong commitment to people-centered leadership. Just as I’ve supported individuals and organizations through change in my professional career, I now hope to support them spiritually helping them mark life’s transitions with grace, authenticity, and joy.

I am proudly ordained through the Universal Life Church, an organization rooted in the belief that all people—regardless of background, orientation, or faith—deserve to be celebrated and supported in life’s most sacred moments. ULC’s inclusive philosophy aligns deeply with my own values: compassion, authenticity, and the freedom to honor love in all its forms.

While I don’t adhere to a single religious doctrine, I embrace a spiritually open approach that welcomes people from all walks of life. Whether you're deeply religious, spiritual-but-not-religious, or simply seeking a meaningful ceremony, I tailor my services to reflect your beliefs and values—not mine.

My ministry is about connection, healing, and joy. I honor traditions from various paths, including spiritual healing, handfasting's, and house blessings, and I’m always open to co-creating rituals that feel authentic to you.

Intentional blend of empathy, personalization, and professionalism I bring to each moment. I would describe my ceremonies as “a celebration of love, crafted with care, and delivered with warmth and grace.

I’m based in Union County, New Jersey, and I’m happy to travel throughout the tri-state area—including New Jersey, New York City, and Eastern Pennsylvania—for ceremonies and spiritual services. I have special experience working with diverse communities in urban and suburban settings, and I’m comfortable officiating in everything from intimate backyard gatherings to formal venues. My travel range extends up to 1,000 miles, which means I’m also open to destination ceremonies or events in areas like Washington, D.C., Boston, or even Los Angeles, where I’m actively exploring relocation opportunities. I bring a calm, professional presence to every setting, and I’m committed to making your ceremony feel personal and seamless—no matter the location. Whether you're planning a wedding in Central Park, a vow renewal on the Jersey Shore, or a house blessing in the suburbs, I’m honored to be part of your journey.

Beyond officiating weddings and life ceremonies, my ministry is rooted in creating safe, affirming spaces for individuals and families navigating meaningful transitions. I offer a wide range of services—from spiritual guidance and spiritual healing to house blessings and premarital counseling—all designed to honor the unique path of each person I serve.

My approach is deeply inclusive. I proudly officiate same-sex marriages, handfastings, and vow renewals, and I welcome people from all spiritual backgrounds. Whether you're seeking a traditional ceremony or something more personalized and symbolic, I work closely with you to ensure the experience reflects your values, beliefs, and love story.

With a background in HR leadership and communications, I bring a calm, professional presence to every interaction. My ceremonies are not only heartfelt—they’re thoughtfully organized, emotionally resonant, and delivered with grace.

Ultimately, I see ministry as a way to foster connection, healing, and joy. Whether you're celebrating a milestone or seeking guidance during a life shift, I’m honored to walk alongside you with compassion and care.