Rev. Matthew Rak

I became an ordained minister online to better support the families I serve as a Funeral Director. Over the years, I encountered situations where a family either didn’t have a clergy member available or wanted someone they trusted to lead the service. Becoming ordained allowed me to offer that additional support in a respectful and meaningful way. For me, it was about meeting families where they are and ensuring their loved ones' services were personal, dignified, and comforting.

Troy, Michigan

My goal with becoming ordained online is to provide families with a more complete and personal experience during one of the most difficult times in their lives. I want to be able to step in and lead meaningful services when needed—especially when families don't have a connection to a church or clergy. It’s about offering comfort, flexibility, and dignity, and ensuring that every ceremony reflects the values and wishes of the loved one being honored.

Every couple has a unique love story—and my goal is to honor that story in a way that feels heartfelt, personal, and unforgettable. I don’t believe in cookie-cutter ceremonies. I take time to get to know you, understand your journey together, and craft a ceremony that reflects your personalities, values, and vision for your big day.

Whether you want something traditional, spiritual, modern, playful, or deeply emotional, I create a warm and inclusive atmosphere where everyone feels connected. I bring a calm and confident presence, helping you feel at ease even in those beautifully emotional moments.

Above all, I believe your ceremony should feel like you. It should be a celebration of your love—authentic, meaningful, and filled with joy.

I am a Licensed Funeral Director with over 15 years of experience. While I’m open to traveling wherever I’m needed, I do have particular familiarity with Oakland County. Over the years, I’ve developed strong relationships with cemeteries, clergy, and service providers in those regions, which allows me to coordinate services more efficiently and compassionately. That said, I’m always willing to adapt to new areas when needed.

As a minister, my role goes beyond simply officiating your wedding. I’m here as a guide and a steady presence during one of the most meaningful moments of your life. I offer:

Pre-ceremony guidance – Whether it’s helping you write your vows, choosing meaningful readings, or creating a flow that feels right, I support you every step of the way.

Customized ceremonies – Religious, spiritual, interfaith, secular, or somewhere in between—I honor your beliefs and tailor the ceremony accordingly.

Rehearsal coordination – I’m happy to lead or assist with your rehearsal to ensure everyone feels comfortable and the ceremony flows smoothly.

Elopements and intimate gatherings – I also specialize in smaller ceremonies where intimacy and intention are at the heart of the experience.

Ongoing support – Many couples appreciate having someone they can turn to for encouragement, advice, or even premarital conversations before the big day.

My goal is to create a space where your love is honored with intention, care, and authenticity. It’s a joy and a privilege to stand with couples as they take this meaningful step together.