North Dakota Wedding Laws
Because of North Dakota's clear skies and friendly people, marrying in the Peace Garden State is ideal both for state residents and out-of-town couples who want a one-of-a-kind marriage ceremony. North Dakota has something for every marrying couple, including expansive plains, tranquil lakes and fun cities. Whether you intend to marry your best friend in North Dakota or to officiate a wedding in the state, you want to learn as much as possible about marriage laws in the Peace Garden State. This guide explains marriage rules, couple requirements and minister obligations. Continue reading to ensure your special day turns into a legally binding marriage.
Getting Married in North Dakota
- Marriage By Proxy Allowed:
- No
- Minister Required to be Present:
- Yes
- Number of Witnesses Required:
- 2
- Min. Age of Witnesses:
- None
- Couple's Consent Required:
- Yes
- Pronouncement Required:
- Yes
With a couple of exceptions, North Dakota law does not set parameters on marriage ceremonies. Accordingly, couples and officiants may plan and conduct their ceremonies as they see fit. The ceremony may or may not contain religious and spiritual elements.
Nevertheless, the couple must formally consent to the marriage during the ceremony. The minister also must pronounce the couple legally married.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-20. License and certificate.
The marriage license and certificate of the person solemnizing the marriage must be upon one blank form in duplicate consisting of two pages with a perforated seam to make it readily detachable. The form must be substantially as follows:
MARRIAGE LICENSE
State of North Dakota )
) ss.
County of _________ )
To any person authorized by law to perform the marriage ceremony: You may join in marriage __________ of ___________, aged _____ who has ______ been divorced, and ___________ of __________, aged _____ who has ______ been divorced. You shall return this license and your certificate to my office within five days.
Dated _________, ______.
(Seal)
Recorder/Designated Official
CERTIFICATE OF MARRIAGE
I certify that the persons named in the foregoing license, _________ and
_________, whose names after marriage are ___________ and __________, respectively, were joined in marriage by me at ___________, county of __________, State of North Dakota, on __________, _____.
In the presence of
___________________________ ) ___________________________
___________________________ ) ___________________________
Witnesses
Every marriage license must contain the full name of each party before the marriage. Every certificate of marriage must contain the full name of each party before and after the marriage and be signed by two witnesses to the marriage in addition to the signature of the person who solemnized the marriage.
North Dakota Marriage Requirements
- Min. Age of Couple:
- Age 18 or Age 16 with Guardian Consent
- Residency:
- Not Required
- Min. Distance of Kin Allowed:
- Second Cousins
- Marriage Equality:
- Yes
To marry in North Dakota, both members of the couple must not be married to anyone else. They also must be at least 18. For 16- and 17-year-old individuals, marriage in North Dakota is possible with the written consent of parents or legal guardians.
North Dakota does not permit marriage between close relatives. Siblings; grandparents and their grandchildren; uncles, aunts, and their nieces and nephews and first cousins may not legally marry in North Dakota. State law considers whole blood, half-blood, illegitimate children and relatives to be close kin.
Like all other states, North Dakota recognizes same-sex marriage. This is true whether the couple resides in the state or lives somewhere else.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-02. Lawful age for marriage.
Any unmarried person of the age of eighteen years or more, and not otherwise disqualified, is capable of consenting to and consummating a marriage. If a person is sixteen to eighteen years of age, a marriage license may not be issued without the consent of the parents or guardian, if there are any. A marriage license may not be issued to any person below the age of sixteen, notwithstanding the consent of the parents or guardian of said person.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-03. Void marriages.
The following marriages are incestuous and void:
Marriage between parents and children, including grandparents and grandchildren of every degree.
Marriage between brothers and sisters of the half as well as the whole blood.
Marriage between uncles and nieces of the half as well as the whole blood.
Marriage between aunts and nephews of the half as well as the whole blood.
Marriage between first cousins of the half as well as the whole blood.
This section applies to illegitimate as well as legitimate children and relatives.
How to Become a Wedding Officiant in North Dakota
- Min. Age of Minister:
- Age 18
- Residency:
- Not Required
- Document(s) Required:
- Varies by County
- Online Ordination Recognized:
- Yes
- Relevant Office of Registration:
- Recorder
- Latest Document(s) Submission Date Allowed:
- After the Ceremony
- Minister I.D. # Issued:
- No
In North Dakota, judges, county recorders, ordained ministers of recognized denominations, and other authorized religious actors may perform a marriage ceremony. Nevertheless, the officiant must be at least 18.
Ministers who receive their ordination from the Universal Life Church are religious actors. This is true regardless of the place of residence, gender or personal beliefs of the minister. Consequently, North Dakota law permits ministers from the Universal Life Church to solemnize marriages. To do so, a minister may have to produce ordination credentials or other documents.
Documentation requirements vary from county to county, so ministers should check with the recorder who issued the marriage license to ensure all necessary documentation is on file.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-09. Who may solemnize marriages.
Marriages may be solemnized at any location within the state by:
All judges of courts of record;
Municipal judges;
Recorders, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official;
Ordained ministers of the gospel, priests, and clergy, authorized by recognized
denominations; and
- By any individual authorized by the rituals and practices of any religious persuasion
Applying For a Marriage License in North Dakota
- ULC-Officiated Ceremony Type:
- Religious
- Mandatory Waiting Period:
- None
- License Valid For:
- 60 Days
- License Must Be Submitted:
- Within 5 Days of Ceremony
After issuance, North Dakota marriage licenses are good for 60 days in the county of their issuance. On the other hand, if the members of the couple apply in their home county or their parents' home county, the license is valid for 60 days anywhere in North Dakota. State law considers active members of the military to be residents of the county where they are stationed.
After completing the ceremony and solemnizing the marriage, the officiant must return the completed marriage license and attached certificate to the same county recorder who issued it. This must be done within five days of the ceremony.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-10. Marriage may not be solemnized without license.
A person may not solemnize any marriage until the parties to the marriage produce a
license regularly issued not more than sixty days before the date of the marriage by:
- A recorder serving the county in which either of the contracting parties resides or is
temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a
different official;
- A recorder serving the county in which a parent of either of the parties resides or is
temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official; or
- A recorder serving the county in which the marriage is to be solemnized, unless the
board of county commissioners designates a different official.
For the purpose of obtaining a marriage license, a member of the armed forces of the United States stationed within the state of North Dakota is deemed to reside in the county in which that person is stationed.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-21. Return of license and certificate – Duplicate delivered to persons married – Records kept – Penalty.
When a person authorized by law solemnizes a marriage, that person shall fill out and sign the certificate following the license in duplicate, giving the person's official title, or if a minister of the gospel or priest, the ecclesiastical body with which the minister or priest is connected. The original copy of the certificate and license must be returned to the official who issued the license within five days after the date of the solemnization of the marriage and the duplicate copy must be immediately delivered to the persons married. The official shall file the original copy and retain it as an official record. Any person who willfully neglects to make such return within the time required is subject to the penalty provided in section 14-03-28.
How to Get a North Dakota Marriage License
- Who Picks Up License:
- The Couple
- Where License is Valid:
- Any County in North Dakota
- Marriage License Pick-Up:
- In Person Only
- Cost of License:
- $65.00
- Accepted I.D. Types:
- Photo ID
- Proof of Divorce Required (If Applicable):
- Yes
- Blood Test Required:
- No
Before marrying in North Dakota, the couple must obtain a marriage license from the county recorder where they or their parents live. If the couple is from out of state, the couple must apply in the county where the ceremony will take place.
The cost of applying for a marriage license in North Dakota is $65, with $35 of the fee going to help victims of domestic violence. If the couple marries at the courthouse, there is an additional $30 fee.
To apply for a marriage license, the couple must appear in person. Both members of the couple must submit a sworn affidavit to confirm their ages. They must also show a government-issued ID and disclose their social security numbers. Finally, both members of the couple must notify the court about previous marriages and provide relevant divorce decrees.
It is important to be accurate when completing marriage license applications in North Dakota, as false information may lead to a fine.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-17. Application for license.
- When application is made to a recorder, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official, for a marriage license, the recorder, or designated official, shall inquire of the applicant concerning the legality of the contemplated marriage. The recorder, or designated official, may examine other witnesses. The facts concerning the legality of the marriage may be submitted to the recorder, or designated official, by affidavit. The recorder, or designated official, also shall require each applicant to submit the following facts upon blanks provided by the county, together with documentary evidence of age:
a. An affidavit by each of the applicants showing that each is over the age of eighteen years. In addition, each applicant shall exhibit to the recorder, or designated official, a birth certificate or other satisfactory evidence of age. If either applicant is under the age of eighteen years, the recorder, or designated official, shall require the written consent of:
(1) Either parent of the minor applicant, if the parents are living together;
(2) The parent having the legal custody of the minor applicant, if the parents are not living together;
(3) The surviving parent, if one of the parents of the minor applicant is deceased; or
(4) The guardian, or person under whose care and government the minor applicant is, if both parents of the minor applicant are deceased, or if a person other than a parent has legal and actual custody of the minor applicant.
b. An affidavit showing whether either or both of the parties have been divorced. If a decree of divorce has been granted to either or both of the parties, a certified copy of the decree must be filed with the application. A license shall not be issued if it contravenes any provisions of the divorce decree.
All affidavits must be subscribed and sworn to before a person authorized to administer oaths. The recorder, or designated official, shall retain on file all papers and records pertaining to all marriage licenses. Anyone knowingly swearing falsely to the statements contained in any affidavit mentioned in this section is subject to the penalty provided in section 14-03-28.
Each application for a marriage license must also contain a statement regarding surname options which is consistent with section 14-03-20.1.
Each application for a marriage license must contain the social security number of each applicant.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-10. Marriage may not be solemnized without license.
A person may not solemnize any marriage until the parties to the marriage produce a license regularly issued not more than sixty days before the date of the marriage by:
- A recorder serving the county in which either of the contracting parties resides or is temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a
different official;
A recorder serving the county in which a parent of either of the parties resides or is temporarily domiciled, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official; or
A recorder serving the county in which the marriage is to be solemnized, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official.
For the purpose of obtaining a marriage license, a member of the armed forces of the United States stationed within the state of North Dakota is deemed to reside in the county in which that person is stationed.
N.D. Cent. Code § 14-03-22. Marriage license fee – Supplemental fee – Fee for marriage ceremony – Duties of officers.
For the issuance and filing of a marriage license, the recorder, unless the board of county commissioners designates a different official, shall collect a fee of up to thirty dollars from the party applying for the license.
In addition to the license fee provided for in subsection 1, the recorder, or designated official, shall collect from the applicant a supplemental fee of thirty-five dollars for aid to victims of domestic violence through the domestic violence prevention fund in accordance with chapter 14-07.1.
For performing a marriage ceremony during regular courthouse hours, the recorder, or designated official, shall collect a fee of thirty dollars which is to be retained by the county. If the marriage ceremony is performed at a time other than during regular courthouse hours, the recorder, or designated official, may collect and retain a fee in an amount to be determined by the recorder, or designated official.
Except as provided in this section, all collected fees must be deposited monthly with the county treasurer. The county treasurer shall forward the amount represented by supplemental fees to the state treasurer by the fifteenth of each month for crediting to the domestic violence prevention fund.
The recorder, or designated official, shall prepare a copy of the license and certificate and transmit them to the registrar of vital statistics who shall record them in a book of records kept in the registrar's office for that purpose. The registrar shall index the records and upon request shall issue certified copies of the recorded license and certificate for a one dollar fee. The registrar shall keep an accurate account of these fees and shall turn them over to the state treasurer by the fifteenth of each month for crediting to the general fund.
Finalizing the Union
- Officiant's Title on Marriage License:
- Minister
- Church/Ordaining Body:
- Universal Life Church Ministries
- Address of Church:
- Minister's Home Address
After completing the marriage ceremony, the couple may be ready to celebrate or start the honeymoon. The officiating minister still has some work to do, however. Ministers who perform marriage ceremonies in North Dakota must complete and sign both copies of the marriage license.
When completing marriage licenses, Universal Life Church ministers should record their minister titles. They should also note they are connected to the Universal Life Church and provide their home addresses for the church's address.
Once ministers have completed both copies of the license, they should give one copy to the married couple. The other copy and attached certificate must return to the recorder who issued it within five days of the marriage.
Ministers who neglect to return the completed license and certificate on time may have to pay a fine.
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